Childhood friends, a decade of "almost," a pro/con list, and a wedding day at one of the most breathtaking venues in the Pacific Northwest

 

 

From Soccer Teammates to This


Stephanie and Roby met in middle school, became soccer teammates in high school, and spent the better part of a decade being best friends with an unspoken undercurrent of something more. In 2020, when they both ended up back home with their plans blown up, they did the most them thing possible: they made a pro/con list about dating each other. Three hours of debating both sides later, they decided making out was a better use of their time.


A few weeks into dating, Roby left for grad school in New York. Then one night he called her. "I'm coming home," he said. "Not just for Christmas. You're in Portland. I want to come home to you." There was no lightning bolt moment between these two, just a long, slow sigh of relief. Yeah, duh, of course. I photographed their engagement and I'll tell you firsthand: being around Stephanie and Roby is something you feel the second you're in the room with them. 100% twitterpated.

Panoramic view of Columbia River Gorge with lush green cliffs, railway, and blue sky with clouds.

The Griffin House Is Something Else


I'll say it plainly: The Griffin House in Hood River is one of the most stunning wedding venues I've ever set foot in. It sits in the Columbia River Gorge with views that stop you in your tracks, and the property itself is the kind of place that makes a photographer's job genuinely exciting. Every angle is worth shooting. Every corner of the grounds has something going for it. I brought a drone and the aerial shots alone tell you everything you need to know about why this place is a gem of the Pacific Northwest.


It's not just beautiful. It's beautifully designed for a wedding day. The flow of the space, the indoor and outdoor options, the way the light moves through the property, the backdrop of the Gorge behind everything, it all works together in a way that very few venues pull off. If The Griffin House isn't on your radar for a premium Oregon wedding, it should be.

Aerial view of a secluded estate nestled among tall evergreen trees atop rocky cliffs with mountain views.
Sign for The Griffin House on the Columbia River Gorge surrounded by lush green foliage.
Aerial view of a greenhouse and garden with stone walls, manicured lawn, and rows of plants surrounded by lush trees.

The Dress, a Dad, and the First Look


Stephanie's dress was incredible, and I mean that. We got shots of it hanging in the space before she put it on and it was clear this was going to be one of those dresses that photographed beautifully no matter what we did with it. She got her hair and makeup done at the venue and by the time she was ready, the whole energy of the day had shifted to something a little more electric.


Before the first look with Roby, she shared a quiet moment with her dad. I don't have the right words to describe what it looks like when a father sees his daughter in her wedding dress for the first time. You don't need words. The photos say it completely.


The first look with Roby happened behind the house, overlooking the Columbia River Gorge. Let that backdrop sink in for a second. The Gorge stretching out behind them, perfect June light, and two people who've known each other since middle school finally seeing each other on their wedding day. Roby's reaction was everything. These two are not shy about how they feel about each other and this moment was no exception. It was beautiful.

Black craftsman cabin surrounded by lush trees with a white wedding dress hanging on the front porch.
Elegant white tiered ruffle maxi skirt with delicate blue floral print, photographed against black background.
Blue floral chiffon dress with boned corset bodice and butterfly brooch detail on a hanger.
Woman in beige satin dress standing with back to camera in dramatic studio lighting with dark background.
Bright attic bedroom with sloped ceiling, white bedding, hardwood floors, red rug, and natural light from two windows.
Bride in gray pajamas smiling while holding a floral blue and white wedding dress hanging by a window.
A smiling bride in a floral gown stands in a doorway as a bald man in a suit gestures toward her in a warmly decorated room.
Bald man in suit gesturing welcomingly inside a modern bright home with smart thermostat on white wall.
Elderly man with gray beard hugging a dark-haired bride wearing butterfly hair accessory at a wedding.
Man in green suit standing on stone terrace overlooking scenic river valley and mountains on sunny day.
Young man with beard wearing green blazer and floral shirt with daisy pocket square, smiling outdoors.
Teal suit jacket with a blue and white daisy floral pocket square arrangement.
Bride in elegant white ball gown with floral train poses outdoors at scenic mountain venue with stone wall.
Bride in white gown and groom in teal suit stand apart on stone terrace with scenic mountain views.
Groom in green suit sees bride in layered white gown for first look at outdoor wedding venue.
Bride and groom embrace at stone wall overlook with Columbia River Gorge mountains and water views on their wedding day.
Couple holding hands at wedding, bride in blue floral tiered dress, groom in emerald green suit with floral shirt.
Bride in flowing white gown and groom in teal suit share a first look moment outdoors near stone wall and lush trees.

The Wedding Party


After the first look, we enjoyed photography with the wedding party on The Griffin House grounds. This is one of the things I love most about this venue: you don't have to go anywhere and photos are easy in every direction. The crew was fun, relaxed, and down for all of it. These are the kinds of portraits that feel less like a photo session and more like a group of people having a great time together, which is exactly what makes them work.

Bride in a stunning white ball gown with floral details and long train posed on green grass outdoors.
Woman wearing a blue butterfly necklace and matching earrings, with a delicate ring, in an outdoor setting.
Bride in white gown with bridesmaids in green dresses holding train outdoors in garden setting.
Bride in white gown poses with four bridesmaids in blue and green dresses on a lush green lawn.
Five women in formal gowns laughing together outdoors at a wedding celebration.
Five young men in suits taking a group selfie outdoors, smiling and posing together at a formal event.
Group of friends in green suits laughing and embracing outdoors in a garden setting.
Wedding party poses outdoors in formal attire, bride in white gown flanked by guests in navy and emerald green dresses.
Wedding party walks outdoors in green and blue attire, laughing together on a sunny day.
Bride and groom hold hands in a lush garden surrounded by wedding party in blue and green attire.

A Ceremony Short, Sweet, and Perfect


The ceremony was exactly right. Not too long, not drawn out, just the right amount of everything. The Griffin House gave them a setting that did the heavy lifting on atmosphere, and Stephanie and Roby brought the emotion. Roby's vows were funny and beautiful in the exact way you'd expect from someone who's been making this woman laugh since they were 14. The whole thing was tight and intentional and genuinely moving. Short ceremonies done well are some of my favorites to photograph because the emotion is concentrated and nothing gets lost.

Outdoor wedding ceremony with guests seated on chairs, wedding party in teal, overlooking a scenic mountain river valley.
Bride in white gown walks with parents outdoors near stone wall with mountain views.
Bride and groom walk down outdoor wedding aisle surrounded by guests, with scenic mountain and lake views in background.
Groom in green suit smiling at outdoor wedding ceremony surrounded by guests and pine trees.
Outdoor wedding ceremony on a cliffside terrace overlooking a scenic river and lush green hills under a sunny sky.
A bride wearing a flowing white and light blue wedding gown with a long train on a stone patio.
Outdoor wedding ceremony on a scenic overlook with mountain lake views, wedding party in teal and navy attire.
Wedding party gathered on a moss-covered stone wall surrounded by lush green trees during an outdoor ceremony.
Bride placing wedding ring on groom's finger during outdoor ceremony, officiant holding script in background.
Outdoor wedding ceremony on a stone patio with mountain views, bride and groom kissing surrounded by guests in teal and blue attire.
A bride and groom share an emotional embrace outdoors, with the groom wearing a green suit and bride in a ruffled white gown.
Joyful newlyweds share a tender moment walking back down the aisle as wedding guests clap and celebrate outdoors.

A Certificate and a Baby Grand Piano


Right after the ceremony, Stephanie and Roby signed their marriage certificate inside the house. It's one of those moments that can feel like a formality but rarely does when you're actually in the room for it. A few minutes later, Roby sat down at the baby grand piano in The Griffin House and played for his new wife. He's a pianist, and this was one of those moments I wasn't fully prepared for. Just the two of them, the piano, and the Gorge outside the windows. I'm including photos of this in the blog because it deserves to be seen. It's the kind of moment that defines a wedding day.

Group of five people celebrating with a certificate, smiling and cheering in front of ornate gold-framed artwork.
Hands touching a marriage certificate on a dark wooden table during a wedding ceremony.
Bride in lace gown stands by groom playing grand piano in elegant room with gold-framed painting.
Couple smiling at each other while sitting at a grand piano, with gold-framed artwork on the wall behind them.

The Reception Tent That Changes Everything


I have to talk about the reception tent at The Griffin House because it is genuinely one of the most beautiful reception spaces I've ever photographed in. It's new, it's black, and it has clear walls and a clear roof. What that means in practice is that you're sitting inside a structure that feels like a garden. You're protected from the elements, you're in a defined space, but you're surrounded by the outdoors on all sides and the light comes through beautifully. On a night like Stephanie and Roby's, with golden hour rolling in and the Gorge just outside, it was stunning.


They kicked off the reception with fondue, which immediately set the tone. Relaxed, fun, personal. The toasts followed and they were wonderful. The Best Man, Kaya, Alison (Steph's sister), the father of the bride, and Lydia, Steph's best friend, each brought something great to the room. I especially love how much Steph in particular laughed and laughed through them all. The speeches were the kind that remind you why weddings are worth all the planning.

Aerial view of a greenhouse and garden with stone walls, manicured lawn, and lush trees surrounding the property.
Elegant outdoor marquee tent with clear walls and dark frame, set in a lush garden with wildflowers.
Elegant outdoor dining under a clear tent with wooden tables set for a formal event surrounded by lush greenery.
Elegant white table runner with floral shadow pattern, wine glasses, and a floral centerpiece on a wooden table.
White fondue pot on a stand set on an elegant dining table with glassware, surrounded by lush greenery.
Gold bar shelf display with elegant glassware outdoors, surrounded by lush green bamboo trees at a garden event.
Couple smiling and holding plates of food outdoors in a lush garden setting at a wedding reception.
Groom reads wedding speech at outdoor reception while bride and groom sit at decorated sweetheart table.
A joyful wedding reception toast with guests laughing as a man speaks into a microphone at an outdoor dinner.
Man giving a speech at an elegant outdoor wedding reception dinner under a glass marquee tent.
Outdoor wedding reception under a clear tent with guests dining at long tables, surrounded by lush greenery.
Woman laughing joyfully while hugging a man in green at an outdoor evening celebration with string lights.

They Came Prepared for the First Dance


Stephanie and Roby choreographed their first dance, and it showed in the best possible way. They clearly had a great time putting it together and had an equally great time performing it in front of everyone who loves them. After that, the parents got their turns on the floor, and watching both sets of parents slow dance with their kids was one of those moments that sneaks up on you. The joy in the room during those dances was real and easy to photograph.

A smiling bride in a white gown shares a first dance with a groom in a green suit at an outdoor wedding reception.
Bride and groom share their first dance under a glass pavilion surrounded by lush greenery at an elegant outdoor wedding.
Couple shares romantic first dance dip under string lights in elegant outdoor tent wedding reception.
A young bearded man in a teal blazer shares a dance with an older woman in blue at an outdoor event.
A young bearded man in a green suit shares a warm embrace with an older woman wearing glasses outdoors.
Bride and groom share an emotional first dance under a glass ceiling tent surrounded by lush trees at an outdoor wedding.
Elderly man with gray beard sharing an emotional hug with a bride in a strapless gown at an outdoor wedding ceremony.

Golden Hour on the Gorge


During the reception, we slipped out for couple's portraits during golden hour and I want to be direct: this was one of my favorite portrait sessions of the year. The Griffin House property at golden hour with the Columbia River Gorge as your backdrop is almost unfairly beautiful. Stephanie's dress caught the wind and looked absolutely incredible in motion. Roby had eyes only for her the entire time, which made my job very easy. They were so happy and so in love, and the location did the rest. I genuinely struggled to narrow down which photos to include here because there were too many great ones. That's a damn good problem to have.

Bride in flowing white gown ascending stone steps at sunset with mountain views and lavender gardens.
Groom in green suit kneeling to hold bride's hand in a lush garden wedding setting.
A couple embraces overlooking a stunning mountain lake vista with lush evergreen forests in the Columbia River Gorge.
A playful bride and groom making funny faces outdoors with a scenic mountain lake backdrop on their wedding day.
Close-up portrait of a woman and bearded man with striking hazel eyes side by side against dark background.
Bride in flowing white wedding gown running across green grass toward stone wall with mountain lake backdrop.
Excited bearded man in green jacket taking a wide-angle selfie outdoors with trees and rocks in background.
Woman holding a DSLR camera, photographing a scenic landscape displayed on the camera's LCD screen outdoors.
Bride photographs groom in teal suit at scenic mountain overlook with stone wall and pine tree backdrop.
Happy couple embracing outdoors, woman laughing joyfully as man kisses her cheek with scenic lake view behind them.
Groom lifts bride in white dress at scenic overlook with mountain lake and sunset backdrop.
Couple gazing at stunning Columbia River Gorge sunset with lush green islands and mountain backdrop.
Bride and groom dancing outdoors on stone steps surrounded by tall trees on their wedding day.

The Rest of The Night


Back inside, the night found its rhythm and didn't let go. The cake got cut. Ring shots happened. The dance floor filled up and stayed that way. These were people who had shown up for Stephanie and Roby and weren't in any hurry to stop celebrating them.


When I look back at the full arc of this day, from the drone shots over The Griffin House grounds in the morning to the last frames on the dance floor, it's one of those days I'll carry with me for a long time. Great venue. Great guests. Great couple. Incredible celebration.

Elegant green and gold marble fondant cake on a wooden stand outdoors with lush greenery background.
Couple sharing a romantic kiss at an outdoor garden wedding, man in green suit, woman in blue floral dress.
Overhead view of a partially eaten red velvet cake slice on a plate with fork and knife at a restaurant table.
Three rose gold wedding rings displayed on a mossy rock surface, including a diamond engagement ring.
Bride and groom share a joyful first dance surrounded by guests at a lively wedding reception.
Couple embracing in wedding attire in front of a charming dark gray house with string lights at dusk.

WHY THE GRIFFIN HOUSE BELONGS ON YOUR Wedding Venue RADAR


If you're planning a wedding in the Pacific Northwest and you haven't seriously looked at The Griffin House in Hood River, I'd encourage you to do that today. As someone who has shot wedding photography at The Griffin House in Hood River firsthand, here's what makes it genuinely special:

  • The setting is world-class. The Columbia River Gorge as your backdrop isn't something you can replicate anywhere else. Every photo taken on this property has a sense of place that's immediately recognizable and undeniably stunning.
  • The venue is beautiful at every turn. From the interior of the house to the ceremony grounds to the reception tent, there isn't a bad angle on this property. Drone, wide, portrait, detail: it all works.
  • The reception tent is unlike anything I've seen at other venues in the region. Clear walls, clear roof, black structure. It's like being outdoors while being completely comfortable. The light inside is gorgeous and the views don't quit.
  • The space has a natural flow that makes a wedding day feel easy. Everything is accessible, the transitions between spaces feel organic, and the venue is designed in a way that keeps the day moving without feeling rushed.
  • It photographs beautifully in any light. Golden hour on the Gorge is something special, but even earlier in the day when the light is softer, this venue never stops delivering.



If you're getting married at The Griffin House in Hood River and you want a photographer who is genuinely excited to be there, let's talk. Reach out and let's start putting your day together.

 

Vendor Links


Venue

The Griffin House

Venue Coordinator: Courtney Russ

Website: www.thegriffinhouse.com

Instagram: @thegriffinhouse


Planner

Elody Rose Events

Website: www.elodyroseevents.com

Instagram: @elodyrose_events


Coordinator

Kristen The Coordinator

Instagram: @kristenthecoordinator


Hair & Makeup

Katya La Pierre

Website: www.katyalapierre.com

Instagram: @lapierre.stylist


Catering

Devil's Food Catering

Website: www.devilsfoodcatering.com

Instagram: @devilsfoodcatering


Cake & Desserts

Papa Haydn

Website: www.papahaydn.com

Instagram: @papahaydn


Dress Designer

Rue De Seine

Website: www.ruedeseine.com

Instagram: @ruedeseinebridal


Bridal Shop

a&bé Bridal Shop — Denver

Webiste: www.aandbebridalshop.com/denver

Instagram: @aandbebridalshop


Dress Alterations

Royal Thread

Webiste: www.royalthreadpdx.com

Instagram: @royalthread_


Rentals

Riverhood Rentals

Webiste: www.riverhoodrentals.com

Instagram: @riverhoodrentals


Wedding Rings

Hutcherson Goldsmithing

Webiste: www.hutchersongoldsmithing.com

Instagram: @hutchersongoldsmithing


Photography

MOT Photography

Website: motphotography.com

Instagram: @motphotography

 

 

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