Love Across Continents:

Rachel & Ben's Wedding Adventure

Join us as we look back on Rachel and Ben’s beautiful wedding day—one filled with real emotions, great energy, and a deep connection between two people who’ve traveled a long road together. From their early days in Michigan to getting engaged under the redwoods in California, their journey shows how strong love can be, even when life gets complicated.


Rachel and Ben met during a work program that had them moving around a lot. They went from Michigan to Germany, then all across the U.S., spending weekends together whenever they could. Even with long distance and the challenges of COVID, they found ways to stay close. They eventually moved to California, and not long after, Ben proposed in Henry Cowell Redwoods State Park—a quiet, meaningful place that felt just right for them.

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GETTING READY: SIGNIA BY HILTON


The morning of the wedding, Rachel and her friends got ready at the Signia by Hilton in downtown San Jose, while Ben and his friends were in a nearby room. I went back and forth between the two spaces, photographing small moments—quiet reflection, laughter, and warm hugs. Everyone seemed really present, relaxed, and happy to be there. You could feel how ready they were to celebrate Rachel and Ben.


A VERY SPECIAL "FIRST LOOK"


Before the hustle and bustle of the day's events began, Rachel shared a heartfelt "first look" moment with her two brothers, father, and grandfather. Gathered on a quiet rooftop balcony, emotions ran high as they beheld Rachel in her stunning bridal attire for the first time. Tears of joy flowed freely, accompanied by loving embraces and words of encouragement. I absolutely LOVED watching Rachel's bridal party peaking out the door enjoying it all. It was a deeply meaningful moment, filled with love and gratitude. This intimate exchange set the tone for the day, reminding Rachel of the unwavering support and love that surrounded her as she embarked on this new chapter of her life.

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A white wedding dress with a long train hangs elegantly in front of a sunlit window creating a dreamy silhouette.
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PARADE-WORTHY PORTRAITS IN SAN JOSE:


Once the guys were ready, we took a walk around downtown San Jose for some portraits. One of my favorite parts was when Ben’s mom saw him for the first time—such a sweet and proud moment. After that, I joined Rachel and her friends for their turn. We had so much fun walking the streets, taking photos, and laughing together. The best part? A Veterans Day parade was happening right in front of the hotel, and we jumped right in! The girls waved to the crowd like pros, and we got some amazing, playful photos from that spontaneous moment.

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Bridesmaids in matching emerald green dresses hold white and peach floral bouquets while laughing together.
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A bridal party wearing emerald green dresses dance and celebrate joyfully on an outdoor terrace.
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CEREMONY AT CATHEDRAL BASILICA OF St. JOSEPH:


The ceremony took place at the Cathedral Basilica of St. Joseph. The church is absolutely stunning, with high ceilings, tall stained glass windows, and classic architecture. It felt big and beautiful but also very personal. The ceremony was traditional and heartfelt. Rachel and Ben said their vows in front of their closest family and friends, and it was clear how much this moment meant to them.

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FOREST PORTRAITS:


After the ceremony, we headed to Saratoga Springs for the reception. Before joining the party, Rachel and Ben took some time alone for portraits in the woods. The trees were tall and peaceful, and the light was perfect. They walked together, held hands, and just enjoyed a quiet moment to soak everything in. I felt lucky to capture that for them—honest, happy, and full of love.

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A romantic couple stands on a wooden footbridge surrounded by towering trees in a lush forest setting.
A romantic black and white wedding photo captures an intimate moment between newlyweds in a forest setting.
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A bride in a flowing white dress lounges on a rustic wooden footbridge over a stream in an autumn forest setting.
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A wedding bouquet of coral and white roses with greenery rests on rustic wood surface under glowing string lights.
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RECEPTION AT SARATOGA SPRINGS EVENTS & WEDDINGS:


Then it was time to celebrate! The reception was filled with great food, amazing music, and lots of laughter. The speeches brought big smiles and even a few tears. Dinner, provided by Mendocino Farms, was delicious. DJ Linh Ngo from SF Deejays kept the dance floor full all night. Everyone seemed so happy to be there—dancing, hugging, and enjoying every minute with Rachel and Ben. It was one of those nights where you could just feel how much love was in the air.

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Wedding party poses together at night with twinkle lights creating a festive outdoor atmosphere.
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WHAT A WEDDING TO REMEMBER:


As the night came to an end, I looked back on the day and felt really lucky to be part of it. From the special family moments to the big dance party, every part of Rachel and Ben’s wedding felt meaningful. Their love is strong, and their story shows that with time, effort, and patience, love really can grow across any distance.

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Vendor Links


GETTING READY VENUE:

Signia by Hilton, San Jose

ADDRESS: 170 S Market St, San Jose, California, 95113, USA

WEBSITE: https://www.hilton.com/en/hotels/sjcsmsa-signia-san-jose/


WEDDING VENUE:

Cathedral Basilica of St. Joseph

ADDRESS: 80 S Market St, San Jose, CA 95113

WEBSITE: https://stjosephcathedral.org


RECEPTION VENUE:

Saratoga Springs Events and Weddings

WEBSITE: https://www.saratoga-springs.com/weddings

Instagram: @saratogaspringsweddings


DRESS SHOP:

The Wedding Shoppe

Instagram: @weddingshoppemi


HAIR:

Beauty by Thao

Instagram: @beauty_by_thao


MAKEUP:

Laura Coleman

Instagram: @lauracoleman_12


CATERING:

Mendocino Farms

Instagram: @mendocinofarms


FLOWERS:

Gal in the Glen

Instagram: @galintheglen


DJ:

Linh Ngo, SF Deejays

Instagram: @djlinhngo


 

 

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