Jordan & Bryan's Dark Themed Wedding

-When the Bride Wears Black-

 

 

Because Some Couples Were Never Meant to Do Things The Traditional Way


Jordan and Bryan met in 2013 when they both signed up for a snowboarding class at COCC. They connected instantly despite being very different people. He showed her how fun video games could be when you actually know what you're doing. She showed him all the outdoor adventures Bend had to offer. At some point she moved into his townhouse without exactly asking permission, and that's how they started dating. Over the next decade they grew up together, figured out what worked, and built something amazing. So when it came time to plan a wedding, nobody who knows these two was surprised that they went their own direction entirely.

A person in a black witch costume stands among tall pine trees near rustic wooden cabins in a forest clearing.
Close-up of diamond engagement ring and gold wedding bands resting on dark rocky surface outdoors.
Black rhinestone embellished heeled sandals displayed on wooden floor beside a crystal beaded bridal sash belt.
Woman wearing elegant black lace beaded gown with silver crystal necklace at formal event.

Black Dress. Purple Accents. Zero Apologies.


Jordan wore black. Not off-white, not ivory, not blush. Black. The bridesmaids were in deep purple. The florals, the boutonnieres, the accents throughout the day all carried that same dark, intentional palette. It was bold, it was cohesive, and it was completely them. FivePine Lodge in Sisters provided the backdrop: all pines and perfect April light. The contrast between that rich browns and greens naturally found at this stellar venue and the dark color palette of this wedding made for some of the most striking frames I've shot here. The weather didn't hurt either. Clear skies, low 70s, not a puff of wind. Perfect in every sense of the word.

Couple in formal attire standing apart in a pine forest with a red cabin backdrop for an outdoor engagement session.
Couple in black formal wear posing in pine forest near pond, woman in elegant black gown with train looks back at camera.
Couple shares first look moment in forest wedding venue, bride in black gown, groom in suit, rustic barn backdrop.
Couple holding hands in black formal wear among tall pine trees near a rustic red cabin in a forest setting.

The Wedding Party and the Ring Security Team


The groomsmen deserve their own mention. Bryan's guys are all gamer friends, and a number of them were meeting each other face-to-face for the very first time at this wedding. Think about that. These are people with deep, genuine friendships built entirely online, showing up in person for one of the biggest days of their friend's life. That's actually incredible. The energy from this group all day was awesome. And on Jordan's side, the flower boys serving as the ring security team during the ceremony were one of the highlights of the whole day. Kids fully committed to the bit. The ceremony itself was informal, fun, and officiated by Jordan's uncle, which kept everything feeling personal and completely stress free.

Woman in black dress holding a lush bridal bouquet of pink, purple roses, blue flowers, and greenery in sunlight.
Bridesmaids in purple and plum gowns holding floral bouquets laughing together outdoors among tall pine trees.
Two brides in purple and black gowns pose in a pine forest, holding colorful bouquets for their gothic wedding.
Groom with beard in black suit and floral boutonniere stands with groomsmen in matching suits among pine trees.
Groomsmen in navy suits hugging and laughing together in a pine forest during a wedding celebration.
Wedding party in purple gowns and black suits taking a selfie among tall pine trees in a forest setting.
Wedding party celebrating in a pine forest, bridesmaids in purple gowns and groomsmen in black suits.
Two women in elegant gowns, one purple and one black, pose outdoors holding floral bouquets among tall pine trees.
Three boys in matching black suits and sunglasses stand on a path in a wooded park, arms crossed confidently.
Young boy in black suit and sunglasses holds a gift box at an outdoor wedding ceremony with other boys.
Wedding party walks outdoors among tall pine trees, bride in black gown with colorful bridesmaids in purple dresses.

Short, Sweet, and Exactly Right


The ceremony was 15 minutes and that was the whole point. Jordan and Bryan are not the kind of couple who needed a production. They needed the words, the rings, and the people they love watching it happen. Jordan's uncle officiated, kept it personal, kept it moving, and did exactly what a great ceremony is supposed to do: get two people married without making everyone sit through a production. There is something really refreshing about a couple who knows what they want and doesn't feel pressured to stretch it out. Fifteen minutes. Done. Married. Let's celebrate.

Outdoor wedding ceremony setup with rows of dark chairs on green grass surrounded by tall pine trees and rustic red barn.
Floral wedding arch adorned with pink and burgundy roses surrounded by tall pine trees in a forest setting.
Bride in black wedding gown walks with older man through pine forest setting at outdoor wedding ceremony.
Groom in black suit smiling at altar during outdoor woodland wedding ceremony with purple floral arrangements.
Couple holding hands during wedding ceremony with officiant holding book in background, bride has floral tattoo on arm.
Two young women in formal dresses share a warm hug and kiss at an outdoor event.
Couple kissing at outdoor forest wedding ceremony under floral arch, bridesmaids in purple dresses.
Couple walks down forest aisle in black wedding attire, guests applaud at outdoor woodland ceremony.
Large family group photo outdoors near rustic red cabin surrounded by pine trees, dressed in formal attire for a wedding.

A Sunset Session and a First Dance Nobody (that knows the couple) was Surprised By


Jordan changed into a black cocktail dress after the ceremony. The golden hour light at FivePine in April is incredible and having two looks to work with made that session even better. Back inside, the toasts were great and the cake cutting was fun. Then came the moment everyone had been waiting for. Instead of a first dance, Jordan and Bryan sat down in front of a giant screen and raced each other in Mario Kart while guests watched and cheered. Jordan won. The whole room was electric. It was 100% them, and it was one of the most fun moments I've ever witnessed at a reception. Truth be told, I wanted to stop photographing, pick up a controller, and see if I remembered how to throw down at Mario Kart. :)

A bride and groom share a romantic moment in a sunlit forest, gazing into each other's eyes on their wedding day.
Couple taking a selfie in a pine forest, groom in black suit with floral pin, bride with curled hair.
Couple in black wedding attire holding hands and smiling in a pine forest setting.
A man giving a woman a piggyback ride on a forest trail, both smiling, surrounded by tall pine trees.
Bride hugging groom from behind on a forest path, both smiling joyfully during an outdoor wedding photo session.
A couple holds hands walking through a pine forest, woman in black dress with fishnet stockings, man in black suit.
Couple holding hands outdoors, one with colorful tattoos on wrist, both dressed in black attire.
Couple embracing and laughing together among tall pine trees, both dressed in black outfits in a forest setting.
Wedding guest book sign with Flynn family name, Bryan and Jordan, surrounded by colorful metallic pens on a wooden table.
Four men in black suits with floral boutonnieres pose together near a stone fireplace at a wedding reception.
Two grooms in black suits share an emotional hug with a woman in a hair accessory at a wedding ceremony.
Wedding guests laughing and enjoying speeches at a rustic reception venue with floral centerpieces.
Smiling couple cutting a bundt wedding cake on a wood stump, groom in black suit with floral boutonniere.
Excited woman reaching for chocolate cupcakes with white frosting at a party celebration event.
Group of people watching Mario Kart racing game projected on large screen during a formal dinner event.
Couple dancing energetically on wooden dance floor at formal event while guests watch and applaud in dimly lit venue.
A young woman in a lavender dress hugs a man in a suit at a wedding reception venue.
Man in tuxedo holds baby at lively wedding reception dance floor surrounded by guests in purple bridesmaid dresses.

WHY A DARK THEMED WEDDING MIGHT BE EXACTLY RIGHT FOR YOU


A dark themed wedding isn't for everyone, and that's precisely why it works so well for the couples who choose it. It takes confidence to go against the grain and swap white for black. But when it's right, it's really right. The photos are striking, the vibe is cohesive, and the whole day feels real in a way that generic wedding aesthetics simply can't match.


  • Your photos will stand out from every other wedding gallery online. Dark palettes, rich florals, and dramatic contrast make for images that stop people mid-scroll. If you want a gallery that actually looks like you, this is how you get there.
  • Black is incredibly versatile. It works in the forest, in a barn, in a modern venue, in golden hour light. There is no bad backdrop for a black dress. It photographs beautifully in every setting.
  • The details hit differently. Dark florals, moody candles, deep jewel toned accents. Every element of a dark themed wedding feels intentional and curated. Nothing gets lost in a sea of white tablecloths.
  • Your guests will remember it. Most weddings blur together after a while. A dark themed wedding does not. It's bold enough to stick with people long after the night is over.
  • Most importantly, it's yours. If this is who you are as a couple, your wedding should reflect that. The best wedding days are the ones that feel authentic. Don't dress up as someone you're not for the sake of tradition.


If you're a bride considering wearing black and want a photographer who'll be just as excited about it as you are, let's talk.

 

Vendor Links


Venue & Catering

FivePine Lodge

Website: fivepine.com

Instagram: @fivepinelodge


Planner

Bend Weddings and Events

Website: bendweddingsandevents.com

Instagram: @bendweddingsandevents


Cake

Nothing Bundt Cakes

Website: nothingbundtcakes.com

Instagram: @nothingbundtcakes


Flowers

Donner Flower Shop

Website: donnerflower.com

Instagram: @donnerflower


DJ

Dave Clemens

Website: daveclemens.com

Instagram: @clemens_dave


Hair & Makeup

Edge Hair & Makeup

Website: edgehairmakeup.com

Instagram: @edgehairmakeup


Rentals

Central Event Rentals

Website: centraleventrentals.com

Instagram: @centraleventrentals


Lead Photography

MOT Photography

Website: motphotography.com

Instagram: @motphotography


2nd Photographer

Collectively Captured

Website: collectivelycaptured.com

Instagram: @collectivelycaptured

 

 

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